Who is this event for?
This event is for sapphics 21+ who are looking to be in intentional connection with themselves and each other in a way that centers presence through the senses in a playful, creative, and intuitive way. This space is explicitly inclusive and welcoming of trans, non-binary, and BIPOC sapphics. In our aim to create a comfortable sapphic sanctuary, attendance for allies and cisgender men is not available at this time, respectfully. Attendance is not available at any time for homophobes, racists, TERFS, fascists, etc, disrespectfully.
What exactly will we be doing?
Each event is so different since they are informed by the energy of the astrological seasons, but there are many core elements that remain the same. For a full list of all that we have to offer at the next gathering, see the details on our website or on the event invite. The reality is it’s impossible to describe the exact experience you will have because it is a choose your own adventure type of thing.
Why center pleasure when there are so many horrible things happening in the world?
For queer communities, embracing joy, pleasure, and connection is not about ignoring pain, but about refusing to let oppression dictate the limits of our lives. This is not toxic positivity. We are not bypassing suffering, we are insisting that even in times of great grief, we deserve great joy.
Systems of power thrive when marginalized people are too exhausted, too lonely, or too afraid to imagine (let alone fight for) a world where we flourish. The queer joy we cultivate together at the Pleasure Portal disrupts narratives of despair. It fuels our movements, connects us to our bodies and each other, and reminds us why we keep going.
Why do I need to attend the opening circle?
Since this gathering is rooted in intention, it’s really important that attendees all arrive for a shared moment of connection to get the lay of the land together. We go over important topics such as consent to make sure we are all aligned on the rules of engagement within the space. It also serves as a brief moment to casually share our names and our signs with each other.
Is this a sex party?
No, this is not a sex party. But it is a sexy party, meaning that there is opportunity for connection beyond what would be possible in a public space. We offer spaces and tools for platonic and/or flirty connection and touch if you so desire and enthusiastically choose, but it is not exclusively designed for couples or cuddlers - if you just wanna come hang and meet cool people, this is definitely the space for that as well.
What is the context behind the pricing?
This is an all-inclusive gathering that offers sooo many delicious things along with entry. We offer food, drinks (including alcoholic options), crafts, toys, games, a smoke bar, and much more. Each of these offerings are abundant for you to enjoy at your own discretion rather than placing individual limitations per person per offering (though it is not the type of event for over intoxication). We also book out, decorate, and curate carefully selected private venues that offer additional privacy and comfort, rather than being in public places that require external venue staff to be present at the gathering. Attendance is also limited to a small number of attendees to keep the vibes intimate and connected, and we have doubled the event length since it’s inception. We are finding the sweet spot of pricing to be able to continue producing these gatherings, and to provide the elevated experiences attendees have come to know, love, and expect.
Are there any options to attend if it’s outside of my price range?
Yes, we offer:
Work trade opportunities for discounted entry for 1 shift or a comp’ed ticket for 2 shifts (shifts are typically 1 hour each, before or after the event)
Accessibility and BIPOC accessibility discounts for those experiencing financial hardship
The ability to pay the entry fee in two installments instead of all at once, by request on a case by case basis
Send a DM if interested in any of these options
What Covid precautions do you have in place?
Each event features a fully stocked sanitation station that includes individually wrapped and sealed masks, hand sanitizer, Clorox wipes, sanitizing hand wipes, and body wipes. We also discuss this in the opening circle and prioritize venues that have an element of outdoor/open air space.
Are the venues ADA accessible?
Due to the fact that our events are at private venues rather than public spaces, there are often times at least a couple of stairs somewhere onsite, but this will vary on a case by case basis for each event so please reach out directly to confirm.
Do you take dietary restrictions into account when planning the refreshments menu?
Yes, definitely. While not everyone may be able to eat or drink every single thing, we do take into account various common dietary needs and restrictions when planning our refreshments menu.
Can I bring my own…?
Tarot cards, snacks, crafts, art to share, games, sensory items/tools/toys…YES
Alcohol, s*x toys…NO (sry babes ya gotta leave the strap and tequila at home for this one)
Why is this so mysterious?
Portals are inherently places of mystery. Each pleasure portal is a doorway into a different world that only can be captured in the moment with pure presence. This isn’t the type of event where people are all on their phones. We are tapped into co-creating the experience together in the moment. It truly is something that you just have to be there to fully grasp because it’s not a mental thing to be understood, it’s an embodied thing to be felt.